Getting Help
What can you do?
Where personal injury, to either yourself or another person, or property damage are feared, a Peace Bond may provide protection from the abuser. You, or someone acting on your behalf, can file a complaint or lay criminal charges with the court. If the court is satisfied that there are reasonable grounds for this fear, a Peace Bond may be issued. It will set out certain conditions that the alleged offender must abide by such as staying away from a certain address or no communication with the victim. If the alleged offender refuses to enter into a Peace Bond, he/she may be sent to jail for a term up to twelve months. A Peace Bond can be valid for up to twelve months from the date of issue.
Take extra care... What else can you do?
- If you suspect someone is being abused, get involved. You may be able to prevent further abuse or reduce the harm caused
- Whether you live in your own home, at a retirement home or Long Term Care facility, know your rights, ask for advice if you think something is wrong
- To minimize your risk of abuse, Stay Active, Stay Sociable. Maintain and increase your network of friends and acquaintances. New activities can bring new friends. Have regular contact with family and friends either by phone or visits at home. Have your own phone number and check your own mail
- Be cautious about permitting adult children back into your home to live, especially those with a history of violence or substance abuse
- Familiarize yourself with your spouse's tasks to ensure your continued independence
- Stay organized. Know where your important papers and financial records are. Make sure that others know that you know where these things are
- Plan now for later. Get legal advice and make arrangements now for documents like Powers of Attorney, your will or your finances. Don't let anyone keep the details of your finances from you
- Find out what Community Resources are available in your area. Know who to call for assistance when you need it, such as housekeeping, groceries, Meals on Wheels, transportation, etc.
What can the Police do?
Many types of abuse or neglect are crimes. If you have been abused, or if you think someone else is being abused, call the police. This is a very important step in protecting yourself or those you may believe are in jeopardy. Experience shows us that when abuse is not identified and stopped, the level of abuse often increases.
When calling the police you can remain anonymous. However, you may be asked for your name and phone number should more information be required. If you are still hesitant about calling, and know of someone who is being abused or neglected, you can contact the Crime Stoppers tip line at 905-522-8477 and all your information will remain anonymous.
On arrival, the first responsibility of the Police is to ensure everyone's safety. Once the situation is safe, a thorough investigation will be conducted. This may include:
- A detailed (possibly videotaped) statement from the victim
- If there is a language barrier, an interpreter will be provided
- Photographs of any injuries or the scene
- Statements from others who may have evidence: family, friends, neighbours
- Medical reports, financial statements or other relevant documentation
- A background check of any past reports of abuse
- An interview of others who may have knowledge or previous abuse incidents
During this interview process, it is very important for you to tell the Police what has happened and if it has happened before. Let them know if you are afraid of the abuser. On completion of the investigation, you will be apprised of the results. Any concerns you may have will be discussed and appropriate support information will be provided.
If the evidence is sufficient to believe that a crime has occurred, charges may be laid. Depending on the circumstances, the offender may be arrested and his/her release from jail may be opposed. If the offender is held in custody, he/she will receive a bail hearing before a Justice of the Peace. At that time, bail may be denied or a release with or without conditions may be issued.
You may have to testify in court. If so, there are a number of options, supports and services available to you. These may include assistance from Seniors' Support Officers, Victim Services and Victim/Witness programs.